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Biblical reflections
Fr. Matteo Rebecchi, SX
Fr. Matteo Rebecchi, SX

A Transforming Encounter

Listening to the Spirit

Jesus, I desire to see myself through Your eyes of Love. Please remove all lies and distortions that veil my vision of myself. May I see Your Truth in my own eyes and a reflection of my image in Your eyes. Your gaze is pure Love, the look that reveals my true beauty. I uncover my face and my heart and open my eyes before You. Come, Lord and see me as I am, for I believe Your looking upon me will heal and restore me. Amen.

From https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/his-gaze-heals-me

Listening to the Word

Jn 4:5-42

Jesus came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of land that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there. Jesus, tired from his journey, sat down there at the well. It was about noon.

A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” His disciples had gone into the town to buy food. The Samaritan woman said to him, “How can you, a Jew, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?” —For Jews use nothing in common with Samaritans. — Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God and who is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.” The woman said to him, “Sir, you do not even have a bucket and the cistern is deep; where then can you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us this cistern and drank from it himself with his children and his flocks?” Jesus answered and said to her, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again; but whoever drinks the water I shall give will never thirst; the water I shall give will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may not be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”

Jesus said to her, “Go call your husband and come back.” The woman answered and said to him, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus answered her, “You are right in saying, ‘I do not have a husband.’ For you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true.” The woman said to him, “Sir, I can see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain; but you people say that the place to worship is in Jerusalem.” Jesus said to her, “Believe me, woman, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You people worship what you do not understand; we worship what we understand, because salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and truth; and indeed the Father seeks such people to worship him. God is Spirit, and those who worship him must worship in Spirit and truth.” The woman said to him, “I know that the Messiah is coming, the one called the Christ; when he comes, he will tell us everything.” Jesus said to her, “I am he, the one speaking with you.”

At that moment his disciples returned, and were amazed that he was talking with a woman, but still no one said, “What are you looking for?” or “Why are you talking with her?” The woman left her water jar and went into the town and said to the people, “Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Christ?” They went out of the town and came to him. Meanwhile, the disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat.” But he said to them, “I have food to eat of which you do not know.” So, the disciples said to one another, “Could someone have brought him something to eat?” Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of the one who sent me and to finish his work. Do you not say, ‘In four months the harvest will be here’? I tell you, look up and see the fields ripe for the harvest. The reaper is already receiving payment and gathering crops for eternal life, so that the sower and reaper can rejoice together. For here the saying is verified that ‘One sows and another reaps.’ I sent you to reap what you have not worked for; others have done the work, and you are sharing the fruits of their work.”

Many of the Samaritans of that town began to believe in him because of the word of the woman who testified, “He told me everything I have done.” When the Samaritans came to him, they invited him to stay with them; and he stayed there two days. Many more began to believe in him because of his word, and they said to the woman, “We no longer believe because of your word; for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the savior of the world.”

Reflection

During the third week of Lent, the liturgy offers us a special Gospel: the story of Jesus’ conversation with the Samaritan woman. This dialogue is an image of our own relationship with Jesus.

Jesus approaches a woman of Samaria in the middle of the day. He desires to meet us exactly where we are, in our real-life situations. According to the tradition of Israel, it was forbidden for a man to approach a woman who was not his wife. Furthermore, the Israelites avoided the Samaritans because in Samaria the worship of Yahweh was considered distorted: the Samaritans did not go to the Temple in Jerusalem and mixed their religion with pagan beliefs. The Israelites had even destroyed the Samaritans' temple.

Jesus meets the Samaritan woman at noon, during the hottest part of the day. People usually avoided going to the well at that hour because of the excessive heat. Perhaps the Samaritan woman also wanted to avoid meeting others, but Jesus chose to be found right there, to meet her at that very moment.

The dialogue begins with water. Jesus chooses a simple topic to make Himself understood, and perhaps to give the woman dignity and importance. After a profound conversation, He promises to give her the water of eternal life.

Next, Jesus questions the Samaritan woman about her husband. She had had many and had been separated numerous times; her marital life was marked by mistakes. When we approach Jesus, we become more aware of the negative aspects of our lives, just like Saint Peter who, after the miraculous catch of fish, knelt down saying: "Depart from me, Lord, for I am a sinful man." We see the negative and yet we keep trusting in His love for us.

Then, the conversation shifts to the place where one should pray to God. For the Israelites, the Temple of Jerusalem was the only legitimate place of worship, while for the Samaritans, it was Mount Gerizim. However, the Samaritan woman was barred from both: from Jerusalem because she was a Samaritan, and from Gerizim because of her irregular marital status. For this reason, the Samaritan woman represents those who remain far from God, those who live outside the boundaries of the church, or those of other religions.

Jesus tells her: "An hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth." This means that now even the disillusioned and the sinners, as well as atheists and non-Christians, and all those who feel distant from God, can pray to Him and feel united with Him. God is close to them; in fact, He makes Himself close to them, just as Jesus did with the Samaritan woman.

At the end of the story, the Samaritan woman becomes a missionary and announces to everyone the beauty of her encounter with Jesus. We, too, are missionaries like the Samaritan woman. We are not perfect, but we have felt the gaze of Jesus, who knows us deeply and loves us despite our failures. This feeling of being loved starts a new journey and helps us to change and improve. It is an experience so powerful that we cannot keep it to ourselves. To be a missionary means to be a person who has experienced God's love in their own life and desires to share that encounter with Jesus with others. The Gospel says: "Many of the Samaritans believed in Him because of the word of the woman who testified, ‘He told me all the things that I have done.’"

Reflection Questions

When have I felt the gaze of Jesus upon me and, despite my sins, experienced His infinite love?
When have I had the opportunity to share my encounter with Jesus with a brother or a sister?

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