Come to the Feast: More Than a Good Outfit
Listening to the Spirit
Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful. And kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And you will renew the face of the earth.
Lord, by the light of the Holy Spirit you have taught the hearts of your faithful. In the same Spirit help us to relish what is right and always rejoice in your consolation.
We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Listening to the Word
Jesus again in reply spoke to the chief priests and elders of the people in parables, saying, "The kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who gave a wedding feast for his son. He dispatched his servants to summon the invited guests to the feast, but they refused to come. A second time he sent other servants, saying, 'Tell those invited: "Behold, I have prepared my banquet, my calves and fattened cattle are killed, and everything is ready; come to the feast."' Some ignored the invitation and went away, one to his farm, another to his business. The rest laid hold of his servants, mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged and sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. Then he said to his servants, 'The feast is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy to come. Go out, therefore, into the main roads and invite to the feast whomever you find.' The servants went out into the streets and gathered all they found, bad and good alike, and the hall was filled with guests. But when the king came in to meet the guests, he saw a man there not dressed in a wedding garment. The king said to him, 'My friend, how is it that you came in here without a wedding garment?' But he was reduced to silence. Then the king said to his attendants, 'Bind his hands and feet, and cast him into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.' Many are invited, but few are chosen."
Reflection
In the Gospel of Matthew 22: 1-14, Jesus speaks about a great wedding feast. The King is God, and He prepares the feast for His Son. And the first thing we should remember is this: we are invited. Not because we are perfect. Not because we have earned it. We are invited because God loves us. However, there is something uncomfortable in today’s Gospel. The people were invited, but they did not want to come. One went to his farm. Another went to his business. And there is nothing wrong with having a farm or having a business. The problem is when these things become more important than the invitation of God. And sometimes, brothers and sisters, that can happen to us. We are not bad people. We are simply busy people. We have work, family responsibilities, problems, plans, and so many things to think about. And without realizing it, God becomes the one we visit last. We say, “Lord, later. When I have more time. When things become easier.” But God keeps inviting us. And when we finally come to the feast, there is another question: How do we come? Filipinos understand this very well. When we attend an important celebration, we bring out the Barong, the Filipiniana, the nice shoes. We dress well because we want to honor the host. That is good but not enough. In this sense, Jesus reminds us today that God is looking for something deeper than our clothes. He is looking at our hearts.
That is why the man without the wedding garment challenges us. He was physically inside the banquet hall, but somehow his heart was not ready for the celebration. And perhaps we need to ask ourselves: Could that sometimes be me? I come to Mass. I sit in the pew. I listen to the Word of God. I receive the Eucharist. But when I go home, am I still the same person? Is the anger still there? Is the resentment still there? Am I still unwilling to forgive? Do I still have no time to listen to my family? Brothers and sisters, what is the use of wearing our best clothes if our hearts remain unchanged? The real wedding garment is not what we wear on our bodies. It is a heart that knows how to say, “I am sorry.” A heart that knows how to forgive. A heart that is willing to listen to God. A heart that allows Christ to change us. So perhaps the question for us today is very simple: When I leave Mass, what do I bring home? Do I bring peace? Patience? Forgiveness? Or do I bring home the same anger and hurt that I brought into the church?
So, brothers and sisters, come to the feast, but do not come only with a good outfit. Come with a willing heart. We are invited by God, not simply to stay inside the church, but to carry His love in our daily life. When we go home, perhaps there is a husband or wife who needs a little more patience. A child who simply needs us to listen. A neighbor who needs a kind word. Someone we have not spoken to for a long time. Someone who is lonely, wounded, discouraged, or far from God. Perhaps God is sending us to bring the feast to that person. That is how we wear the good outfit as Children of God in the feast with willing hearts. That is our invitation, our calling. So, brothers and sisters, may God strengthen our hearts and minds to come as we are, but not to stay as what we are. Come with our weaknesses, our struggles, and our wounds—but allow Christ to transform us, because the real feast is not simply the food on the table. The real feast is when our hearts are filled again with God’s peace, love, and hope. Through Him, with Him, and in Him, our hearts can truly be transformed. Amen.
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Writers
Fr. Joeven Matugas, SX
Fr. Matteo Rebecchi, SX
Fr. Yustinus Hibur, SX
Bro. Michael Thimoty, SX
Fr. Everaldo Dos Santos, SX
Fr. Petrus Hardiyanto, SX
Fr. Handrianus Masri, SX
Fr. Francisco Javier Beltrán, SX
Fr. Cesar da Silva, SX
Fr. Luigino Marchioron, SX
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