PRAYING WITH THE HEART OF A CHILD
Listening to the Spirit
Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful. And kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And you will renew the face of the earth.
Lord, by the light of the Holy Spirit you have taught the hearts of your faithful. In the same Spirit help us to relish what is right and always rejoice in your consolation.
We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Listening to the Word
Jesus was praying in a certain place, and when he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray just as John taught his disciples."
He said to them, "When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread and forgive us our sins for we ourselves forgive everyone in debt to us, and do not subject us to the final test."
And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend to whom he goes at midnight and says, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, for a friend of mine has arrived at my house from a journey and I have nothing to offer him,' and he says in reply from within, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been locked and my children and I are already in bed. I cannot get up to give you anything.' I tell you, if he does not get up to give the visitor the loaves because of their friendship, he will get up to give him whatever he needs because of his persistence. "And I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. What father among you would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish? Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?"
Reflection
In today’s Gospel, Jesus teaches His disciples how to pray. And He does so in a way that speaks beautifully to the heart of family life. He gives them the Our Father, a prayer we all know, even from our young age. But more than a formula, this prayer is an invitation into relationship. Into intimacy. Into trust… After the prayer, Jesus tells a parable of persistence in prayer when it seems like the answer is delayed. This reflection on today’s liturgical readings is a reminder that God wants to hear us pray. Together. Simply. Persistently. Like children before a loving Father.
Our first reading shows Abraham pleading with God over the fate of Sodom. What’s surprising is not just what he asks, but how. Abraham bargains with God! Fifty? Forty-five? Forty? Thirty? Twenty? Parents should be familiar with this kind of bargaining from their children begging: “Can I have five more minutes?” “What if I eat half of my vegetables only?” Can we skip just this one night of brushing teeth?” etc. This isn’t bad behavior; it’s actually a sign of a child’s trust in their parent’s heart. Abraham’s prayer sounds like that. And God listens; not annoyed, not angry, but patiently. Why? Because Abraham is speaking to God as a Father, just like Jesus teaches us. God wants that same closeness with us.
When Jesus gives us the Our Father, He doesn’t say “My Father,” but “Our Father.” Prayer is not just personal; it’s communal, especially in the family. Parents: when your children see you pray; when you lead grace before meals or invite them to pray before bedtime; it teaches them that prayer is not reserved for the church pew. It’s woven into the rhythm of daily life. Children: when you pray, even in the simplest words; God delights in you. Your prayers are just as powerful as the priest’s or your parents'. Remember: Jesus said the Kingdom of God belongs to such as you. When Jesus says we must become like children to enter the Kingdom, He’s not calling us to be naïve. He’s calling us to be trusting, humble, joyful, and honest; traits children often have in abundance.
So, let’s always pray together. Every day. Even if it’s just one Our Father. Even if it’s just 30 seconds. Even if it’s just messy and imperfect. Pray before meals. Pray at bedtime. Bless your children. Let them hear you talk to God. And let them talk to Him too: in their own words. Because when you do, you’re building more than a habit. You’re building a home where God dwells. A home where God, our Father is known and loved. A home that points to the Kingdom of God. Amen.
Reflection Questions
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Writers
Fr. Severin Joseph Marie, SX
Fr. Petrus Hardiyanto, SX
Fr. Francisco Javier Beltrán, SX
Fr. Patrick Abdul Fornah, SX
Fr. Elvis Ndihokubwayo, SX
Fr. Yustinus Hibur, SX
Fr. Thiago Rodrígues, SX
Fr. Simone Piccolo, SX
Fr. Patrick Santiañez, SX
Fr. Valentin Shukuru, SX
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